by Strod » Thu Sep 28, 2017 5:23 am
I m not sure how long ago this was, but I am 14 and I understand your fear. I don t know about your family or mom, but I do know that you re being completely normal. I mean, if you really don t want to go, just tell your mom, personally, I m going to throw a fit if my mom even tries to make an appointment, it s my choice, and it s your choice. Not theirs. Our bodies are our bodies. I am young enough that I can sort of get away with throwing "teenage meltdowns". You, however have all of the right reasons to be afraid, and I agree, my areas are my areas, I wouldn t want another man or woman looking at them. I honestly do not see the need for a gyno, there is Google, and I can always see my pediatrician if I diagnose something. I know it s not necessarily healthy, but I really don t give a **** what others think. My body, my rules. Power to you, sister.