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I Think I Have A Problem...?

Postby Wat » Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:46 am

Everyone spanks their monkey... but, I think I might be addicted to it.. maybe not though. im not sure. I don't do it EVERY DAY, but I do it like 2-3 times a week....
I have a girlfriends now...
I have been dating her for about a week and a half now.. Im a super virgin, the most I've done is kissed a girl...
But I was wondering... what exactly IS being addicted to masturbation? I have not a clue. I love my girlfriend. a lot. and I feel guilty doing it. Always have. I don't like doing it but its so enjoyable.

The biggest questions I want answered are...

HOw do I know if im addicted?

and sometimes when I spank it I get super into it and imagine a porno in my head... Doing everything that a guy would do.. and a girl aswell... from just putting a hand on my butt cheek haha, to.. well.. I've even touched me bum hole a fw times.. which im not comfortable with at all. it just makes me go faster so I don't take so long... cause I imagine it all in a porno I do it..? is this normal? probabally not. And once I here your answer im gonna start to worry about my sexuality......... But im just gonna say. lesbian porn is a turn on. Normal porn is a turn on.. And yes. I've questions my sexuality to the point ive tried looking at gay porn.. it didn't turn me on.. I kinda just saw it.. and clicked out once I realized I was watching gay porn haha. so ******.

Please help me. my head is in a cluster.

I am an over thinker.

I have anxiety

I am super OCD

Also, I have HOCD pretty bad, it started over the summer.. I saw a movie that made me start questioning it...
now I cant get it out of my head.
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Postby Gurion » Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:47 am

Let me speak to masturbation.

You are right, every mentally healthy male does "spank their monkey" -- it is healthy, harmless and actually has enormous health benefits if done more or less once day or more (reduces the risk of prostate cancer long term by about a third according to multiple studies, reduces the risk of Prostatis, an infection - and increases your healthy sperm count).
There is really no such thing as masturbatory addiction - its a made up condition created by unhealthily hyper religious people who don't want anyone else to have any fun in life.
Masturbation has been looked at scientifically for over a hundred years, and no serious scientist has ever been able to show any problem caused by masturbation.
Lots of non-scientists who, as I said, are troubled - have come up with lots of ideas - the problem for them is, every idea they have is a lie.

Except for feeling guilty about ANYTHING sexual that harms no one - you are normal.
It is not normal to feel badly. If you want to touch your bum hole, or even stick a finger inside it with some lubricant - it harms no one, so do it.
If you want to masturbate to porn, do it.
You are not going to be harmed by any of this.
It's your body, it does it no harm, it does your g/f no harm.
Enjoy it and release all the pent up (and wrong) guilt and troubled mind stuff.
You are wonderful as you are.
Enjoy being you.

Kind thoughts,

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Postby Montgomery » Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:48 am

He would try another variety of shaving gel, some of them are designed to support soften up the stubble. Of path that's mostly for the shave itself. Over time i would think your dermis will come to be used to the abrasive nature of his chin. A lotion for your dermis earlier than making out would help additionally. Probably he might grow a goatee or a beard. Long facial hair does are usually softer.
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Postby Sherwyn » Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:49 am

You are an over-thinker. If you are OCD, get with a therapist. Addiction to masturbation. Your masturbation seems fine right now and playing with your hole is very usual, as it has a lot of nerves there. Addiction is when you have sex with your girl, get out of bed right after and go watch porn to masturbate, or you masturbate instead of regular fun with friends.
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Postby waldemarr » Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:50 am

OH MY GOD! I feel just like you. Just try not to think about it often, that is the Only way to deal with it.
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Postby Warwick » Mon Jan 09, 2017 12:51 am

save these ques for the time when u r having sex 2-3 times a week.....

if u r still addicted with blowing ur self then u might have a prblm

now u r just overthinking
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