I've been dating a Gemini man for almost 5 months. He's amazing for the most part. I love being around him. We live a couple hours away but visit each other often.
For the first two months we spoke on the phone every night, would Skype & text throughout the day. Until one day his phone broke & I didn't hear from him in a couple days. I was worried because everything seemed perfect then stopped. I did try contacting him a couple times then I stopped because I got no response. Then I texted him out of the blue & he answered & explained how he got a new phone & made a comment about how it took so long for me to contact him (since he got his new phone) & I explained that I had been but stopped.
Fast forward were back to how things were. Still have a great time together but the calling & texting is not the same. He can go 2 days without talking to me. Idk if that's normal because that's not normal for US. Idk if that's how things naturally change with time or if I should be worried. He still treats me the exact same besides that & when I contact him first he seems happy to hear from me. I commented on it & he says he "needs to work on his communication" what?! He never had a problem before. He does make an effort, but not like he used to.
How should I deal with this? I don't want to come off as clingy & needy. But I AM clingy & needy. I'm a Cancer! ;) lol.